crochet_lover
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02-27-09 11:32 PM - Post#79395
Both my kids are in Drivers Ed now and my nerves are a little ragged after practice sessions! Today my son nearly rear ended another car. I don't know if I have the "calm" gene in me! I try to be positive and follow the recommended parent participation techniques. What I really want to do is yank the steering wheel out of their hands and say," Ride a bike!" Anybody else have trepidations about their new drivers in the family?
Edited by crochet_lover on 02-27-09 11:33 PM. Reason for edit: No reason given.
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rclark
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02-28-09 12:44 AM - Post#79401
In response to crochet_lover
Some are better at remaining calm than others.
My wife's aunt is in her nineties now, but when she was out for a practice run with her father in the Model A (or whatever it was), she mananged to run up an embankment and turn over the car.
When they came to a stop, his only words: "That will be all for today, Anne".
Me, I'm with you ...
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phantomcobra
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03-02-09 08:31 PM - Post#79542
In response to rclark
I have 3 kids and two were never allowed behind the wheel of my cars. They didn't convince me they could get from point A to point B without some major body work. If they can't be responsible, they can wait until they buy their own car and pay their own insurance. Then they will learn.
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DrivinTooFast
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03-09-09 01:07 PM - Post#80058
In response to phantomcobra
I think parent taught Drivers education is a crock. Most adults are crappy drivers, why would anyone think they can teach their kids.
I am leaving the basic teaching to a driver instructor and I will stick to teaching car control, driving in extreme conditions, hazardous weather driving and driver situational awareness.
I am in no hurry to have my kids solo.
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Levansfour
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03-09-09 02:51 PM - Post#80066
In response to DrivinTooFast
I think parent taught Drivers education is a crock. Most adults are crappy drivers, why would anyone think they can teach their kids.
I am leaving the basic teaching to a driver instructor and I will stick to teaching car control, driving in extreme conditions, hazardous weather driving and driver situational awareness.
I am in no hurry to have my kids solo.
Hmm but you trust a adult you do not know to be able to teach bette than you? You just said above most adults drive crappy.
We taught all 3 of our kids ourselves. They are great drivers who know how to drive defensivly and carefully.
Good luck when your kids are ready to drive.
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DrivinTooFast
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03-09-09 05:03 PM - Post#80078
In response to Levansfour
I trust another to provide a curriculum and teach to that curriculum. I assure you I can teach much more about driving safely than any book.
How many divers teach their kids to test the ABS system in the car so they get the feel for when it engages?
How many parents teach their kids to countersteer into a skid and actually make them do it?
How many parents teach their kids sitational awareness where the driver can identify all the cars around them without looking in the mirror?
How many parents teach their kids to look far down the road and anticipate what will be coming up instead of reacting to what is happening right under their hood?
All this has NOTHING to do with the rules of the road or getting your driver's license and has everything about being a better driver.
I'll leave teaching the rules of the road to the pros, I'm teaching my kids how to drive.
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Levansfour
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03-09-09 05:28 PM - Post#80085
In response to DrivinTooFast
what makes you assume that parents who teach their kids do not teach those things and more? Spending all that money for a professinal to teach what is in the hand book is a waste of money,plus they get very little drive time in those classes. The parent taught way gives you a whole year to practice and make sure your child is more than ready then a "professinal class" who gives your kid 10 minutes driving time if you are lucky and sends them out on their way.
Of course this is just my thougths on the matter. We all have our own ways of doing things and that is ok too.
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workingmom
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03-09-09 05:41 PM - Post#80086
In response to Levansfour
My son is taking Driver's Ed through the Driving School of North Texas. I don't know where you get you information but the "driving" part is not 10 minutes. It's 7 2-hour sessions. One hour of each session is spent observing and one hour is spent driving. But that is not the only driving experience he will get - he must hold his permit for 6 months so he'll get lots of practice driving with us as well before he gets his license....and he won't get his license and drive solo until we are sure he is ready.
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Levansfour
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03-09-09 08:28 PM - Post#80091
In response to workingmom
I was going by what other parents have told me.With our oldest child.That was 7 years ago. So hopefully things have improved like you said.
I still can not see spending 100's of dollars for something I myself can do for much less.
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workingmom
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03-09-09 09:02 PM - Post#80093
In response to Levansfour
I felt that way as well with our oldest...We tried the parent taught course with him but ended up enrolling him in Driver's Ed.
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ReadingRainbow
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03-09-09 10:18 PM - Post#80102
In response to workingmom
Is that 1 hour per student, or is there a whole class of students for the hour? I ask because my mother has been teaching my little sister herself due to the lack (our experience is YEARS old from when I did my driving lessons) of actual drive time.
(15 years ago we had 4 students and a teacher per car, and 1 hour. I got to drive once)
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DrivinTooFast
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03-10-09 07:25 AM - Post#80106
In response to Levansfour
what makes you assume that parents who teach their kids do not teach those things and more? Spending all that money for a professinal to teach what is in the hand book is a waste of money,plus they get very little drive time in those classes. The parent taught way gives you a whole year to practice and make sure your child is more than ready then a "professinal class" who gives your kid 10 minutes driving time if you are lucky and sends them out on their way.
Of course this is just my thougths on the matter. We all have our own ways of doing things and that is ok too.
I think you might be missing my point. I WILL be teaching my kids to drive, but I want it to be augmention to professional driving instruction. I am willing to admit that I do not know it all. But I do know what I know - car control, skid management, driver sitational awareness and anticipation.
Additionally, the from a driving shool in-car time is usually split between 3 kids. the other two observe (or sleep) while one drives.
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rclark
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03-10-09 07:36 AM - Post#80108
In response to DrivinTooFast
... But I do know what I know - car control, skid management, driver sitational awareness and anticipation.
Don't sell yourself short - if you can transfer these skills, you will create a driver I won't mind seeing on the road next to me.
I can see some benefit to a disinterested third party teaching something stressful like driving, but I suspect that commercial driver's ed mostly provides cool movies.
Two plus two equals five, for sufficiently large values of two.
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workingmom
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03-10-09 09:00 AM - Post#80121
In response to ReadingRainbow
At the school my son attends all students individually set up 7 2-hour drive time appointments. During the drive time 2 students are in the car with the instructor. During drive times each student takes a turn to observe for 1 hour and drive for 1 hour of the 2 hour session. And FYI - it's not like a cattle call in class. His class includes about 15 students. I'm pleased with the choice we made to send him to Driver's School. To each his/her own! I just jumped in the conversation to describe our experience.
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workingmom
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03-10-09 09:05 AM - Post#80122
In response to workingmom
But again that is not the ONLY driving experience my son will get. Since he got his permit we've been (and will continue) letting him practice driving with us. He will get this at home practice for at least 6 months before he's able to get his license. We (his parents) will determine WHEN he is able to get his license and at a minimum his grades must be good good, he must continue to display responsible behavior outside of driving, and we must feel he is ready from a driving skills level.
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crochet_lover
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03-11-09 08:41 AM - Post#80207
In response to workingmom
When I took drivers ed, it was offered by the school. My instructor was a coach, not even a certified instructor! He read the paper while we drove!
Since I wrote the original post, I have been having them drive everywhere we go. We take routes that are safe enough for their new skills and safe for others! I am calming down somewhat and only grab the dash occasionally! Looking ahead is one of the concepts the driving school is a proponent of, they call it horizon driving.
We are taking each type of driving situation one step at a time. Like today it will be wet road driving. I think the 6 month learner's permit requirement is a lot better than when I got mine. As soon as I turned 16, boom, I got my license and out on the road within a month or so of drivers ed! That is scary to think of now!
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Al C
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03-11-09 01:42 PM - Post#80238
In response to crochet_lover
You might also want to have them take the defensive driving course. That can be done online and they'll also receive a discount on insurance upon completion.
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03-14-09 04:03 PM - Post#80533
In response to crochet_lover
Wow, didn't you have a learners permit before getting your license at 16? Where I grew up we got our learners permit at 14 and then the license at 16. I was taught at the age of 12, so by the time I was 16 I had been driving for some time. I guess I need to brush up on how things are done here, only four and half more years and I will have a driver.
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crochet_lover
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03-14-09 06:56 PM - Post#80546
In response to RRRquilter
I took drivers ed as a sophmore in May and I was fifteen. I turned 16 at the end of June. So, I had a learner's permit for less than two months. And back in the days, there was no such thing as a provisional license. As for the age you can take drivers ed in Texas, I don't know. I only know this year we could afford to send them. Now we are comparing insurance rates. But that is another topic!
Edited by crochet_lover on 03-14-09 06:59 PM. Reason for edit: No reason given.
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RRRquilter
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03-14-09 09:05 PM - Post#80552
In response to crochet_lover
I do not envy that. Insurance must be through the roof for a teenager.
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